Two is better than One

so it came across my mind.

how do you, a single guy, go about visiting your friend's house, who is already married?

i may be generalizing. but i think for girl to visit her girl friend's house who's already married... maybe not so much of a big deal.

but for a guy, say, like me, to go to a friend's house, who is already married, be it male or female, it would be...

... i don't know. but i just thought about it, and i realized, that i have never visited my married friends' houses.

except for those who held an open house or potluck or something. but i have never made it to a married friend's house, on my own.

as in, it seems like, it's only appropriate to do so if and when i already have a +1. then only it'll be okay, it'll be no big deal for me to go and pay them a visit.

granted, most of my friends who are already married are girls, so there could be some... complications (?) to that. but even my guy friends pun, those who are already married; i've never paid them any visit.

and it's not just visiting their place. even like going out for lunch together or something... it's like, with the exception of gatherings that i've mentioned earlier, when my friends are married, then there they'll go, we'll be disconnected. no more contacts...

...until i have my own date, one way or another, to bring to visit their houses. where it'll be more, what, common? to go and pay each other a visit.

so, 2012 Resolution #4: find a +1 ?